From the Sex Drugs and Rock N’ Roll podcast, Ralph Sutton joins the show to help us examine: Rock groupies, internet dating, people’s perceptions, managing crazy women, Mara explains what happiness is like, the proper time to break up with a chick.
a message to harry (hey i\’m only up to ep35 or so, so i\’m late to the party but …)in the ep with carol montgomery you talk about being angry at being lied to (by society about how a man should be), and at discovering too late the truth about women*. at the time of that show you state your age is 30. i\’m here to tell you that you are lucky, my friend. lucky that you discovered these truths at your young age. i\’m 40 now, and (don\’t worry this isn\’t a sob -story) i smash loads of young girls. i did alright when i was younger DESPITE being the \’nice guy\’ (we have a lot in common, harry) or whatever and at around 31 or 32 yo i had a couple of hot fuckbuddies (again, despite my weak-ass character) who i traded in for a long term girlfriend. i realise now what a mistake that was and with hindsight i can see that those were my prime years. i wasted them on being somebody\’s boyfriend. (and, more importantly, she wasted hers on a bad investment) we broke up after six years and, with the help of the red-pill community i never looked back. i only recently (within the last year) discovered patrice oneal and although i don\’t agree with everything says, he was way ahead of his time and many of the concepts he discussed back in \’07 i was only reading about 3 years ago. the three main resources which affected me most over the last few years, were theartofcharm.com, krauserpua.com, and, more than any other, girlschase.com. although i\’m not affiliated with any of those sites, i feel they deserve a mention, but understand if you wanna edit them from my comment. you are in your prime now, harry. believe me, when you are balls deep in some fine poon you\’re not worrying about how you didn\’t get it when you were 23.i\’ve told all of my friends to listen to the show (one guy is getting divorced. i told him, \’yeah but it\’s been a long time coming, hasn\’t it? and he was surprised that i could tell. i know because he\’s a pussy. beige phillip is the remedy), and told them beige phillip\’s origins so they are all checking out patrice now, too. one buddy told me it was offensive. and i never actually realized, but yeah patrice was pretty offensive haha but i never noticed because it doesn\’t matter to me. who cares what bad language people use, it\’s only words. anyway, i was surprised that he was offended, and questioned him about it. later he came to me and said, \”yeah it\’s funny as shit but i couldn\’t say anything in front of my girlfriend.\”hahahahaha. anyway, i like listening to smart people talk. they don\’t have to talk like me, i don\’t have to talk like them. i don\’t even have to agree with them but i can enjoy listening and developing myself and my own ideas.the three of you are great together, harry, mara and dante. harry you are a witty man. mara is one of a kind. dante i imagine this comment being read out in your mellifluous voice. * in my darker moments i feel the same way. that i was lied to, by my mother, father, society, movies, whatever. but i\’ve come to realise that i wasn\’t lied to at all. the choice was mine. i chose to believe words over actions. i chose to become the nice guy because that\’s what my mother told me to do. and, i guess, i believed that was the way i would get girls. DESPITE ALL OF THE EVIDENCE TO THE CONTRARY.
June 24, 2015 @ 5:54 am
a message to harry (hey i\’m only up to ep35 or so, so i\’m late to the party but …)in the ep with carol montgomery you talk about being angry at being lied to (by society about how a man should be), and at discovering too late the truth about women*. at the time of that show you state your age is 30. i\’m here to tell you that you are lucky, my friend. lucky that you discovered these truths at your young age. i\’m 40 now, and (don\’t worry this isn\’t a sob -story) i smash loads of young girls. i did alright when i was younger DESPITE being the \’nice guy\’ (we have a lot in common, harry) or whatever and at around 31 or 32 yo i had a couple of hot fuckbuddies (again, despite my weak-ass character) who i traded in for a long term girlfriend. i realise now what a mistake that was and with hindsight i can see that those were my prime years. i wasted them on being somebody\’s boyfriend. (and, more importantly, she wasted hers on a bad investment) we broke up after six years and, with the help of the red-pill community i never looked back. i only recently (within the last year) discovered patrice oneal and although i don\’t agree with everything says, he was way ahead of his time and many of the concepts he discussed back in \’07 i was only reading about 3 years ago. the three main resources which affected me most over the last few years, were theartofcharm.com, krauserpua.com, and, more than any other, girlschase.com. although i\’m not affiliated with any of those sites, i feel they deserve a mention, but understand if you wanna edit them from my comment. you are in your prime now, harry. believe me, when you are balls deep in some fine poon you\’re not worrying about how you didn\’t get it when you were 23.i\’ve told all of my friends to listen to the show (one guy is getting divorced. i told him, \’yeah but it\’s been a long time coming, hasn\’t it? and he was surprised that i could tell. i know because he\’s a pussy. beige phillip is the remedy), and told them beige phillip\’s origins so they are all checking out patrice now, too. one buddy told me it was offensive. and i never actually realized, but yeah patrice was pretty offensive haha but i never noticed because it doesn\’t matter to me. who cares what bad language people use, it\’s only words. anyway, i was surprised that he was offended, and questioned him about it. later he came to me and said, \”yeah it\’s funny as shit but i couldn\’t say anything in front of my girlfriend.\”hahahahaha. anyway, i like listening to smart people talk. they don\’t have to talk like me, i don\’t have to talk like them. i don\’t even have to agree with them but i can enjoy listening and developing myself and my own ideas.the three of you are great together, harry, mara and dante. harry you are a witty man. mara is one of a kind. dante i imagine this comment being read out in your mellifluous voice. * in my darker moments i feel the same way. that i was lied to, by my mother, father, society, movies, whatever. but i\’ve come to realise that i wasn\’t lied to at all. the choice was mine. i chose to believe words over actions. i chose to become the nice guy because that\’s what my mother told me to do. and, i guess, i believed that was the way i would get girls. DESPITE ALL OF THE EVIDENCE TO THE CONTRARY.
June 24, 2015 @ 5:57 am
dunno what happened to the formatting there. hopefully it won’t put people off reading my message